Sex position a first time

There are a lot of myths around sexual activity, one being that your first time having sex will hurt. Others may include oral stimulation, fingering or handjobs, or anal penetration in their definition. Your definition could also include stimulation or penetration with a sex toy. Regardless of the type of sexual activities you want to try, there are a few general tips or rules you can use to make your first sexual experience more comfortable. Masturbating can help you figure out what feels good during sex, and it can help you feel more familiar with your body. You might find that certain angles or positions are uncomfortable for you while others are pleasurable.

Instead of trying complicated sex positions which might ruin your experience, go for these 6 simple sex styles to ensure a beautiful time spent with your partner. Missionary: Considered to be the tamest of them all! Everybody knows how this one goes—the girl is on her back and the guy in on top. There are variations as for what you can do with the legs—wrap them around him, spread them wide, pull them closer to you, put them on his shoulders etc. But for starters, stick to what comes easy, as all variations make a difference in the angle and depth of penetration.

One solid bit of relationship guidance is "The Campsite Rule. You know, like when you're actually camping. AKA, don't be an asshole and leave your garbage everywhere.

If you're a little bit nervous or maybe full-on freaking out about your first time having sex, congratulations, you are completely normal! First time sex is pretty much never As Seen on TV, ie. For one, at least one of y'all do not know what you're doing.