Scared to give a blow job

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Sexual Health. Please tell me your experiences and advice for me! I am scared and feel disgusted to give him a blow job! When I've given him hand jobs it takes minutes for him to finish and my hand gets tired. Of course I don't tell him that.

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A couple months ago, I brought a sweet, dorky dude home from the bar. We spent the whole night talking about politics before hopping into bed. I knew I didn't want to have sex with him, but all of a sudden I had a brainstorm. He readily agreed. I proceeded to give him a blowjob for about seven minutes before I got tired it was 5 AM and gave up.