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Regardless of how you identify—whether it be as lesbian, bisexual , asexual , another term , or nothing at all—how you choose to label yourself is not based on a checklist. But then in high school, I met this girl and we started dating secretly. After that, there was no going back, and I eventually came out. Being with her was worth the scariness of coming out to my parents. But up until the end of high school, I was always interested in guys—and even dated a guy my senior year. I told everyone I was probably going to marry him and he was totally the one.


How Do You Know If You’re a Lesbian?




Eight Signs of Being a Lesbian
If you are wondering how to figure out if you're a lesbian , there's one very obvious answer: You are attracted to women and have sex with them. But being that glib can undermine the journey of someone's sexual exploration. You don't just wake up and know you're lesbian. At least, that's the not the case for every single woman.



7 Ways To Know If You're A Lesbian (And Not Just Sexually Curious)
The above definition is more explicitly gender-inclusive than the definition often given for lesbian. Some nonbinary people also identify with this term. Marla Renee Stewart , MA, a lesbian, queer sex educator, and sexpert for adult wellness brand and retailer Lovers , recommends spending some time asking yourself:. Self-identification is. And often, these terms come with a rich history.





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